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推一首 聽了就哭得歌

Selena Gomez的新歌

Lose You To Love Me

就是寫給小賈的

看著昔日情人結婚

畢竟年紀很輕就再一起

然後分分合合

In two months, you replaced us

但這次真的分手了

而分手之後兩個月就….

但我覺得他也不一定很恨小賈

因為在她抑鬱症或再自己開刀(換腎手術)的時候也是對方陪在旁邊

也或許愛有多少 恨就有多少

經歷了這麼多  而且是這麼辛苦的這一切

一路走來 卻也還是無法再一起 沒有結果  已經不是”傷心”  “難過”這種簡單性的描述可以說出她的全部感受

應該非常複雜

看著小賈結婚 知道真的結束了

用這首歌做為這段珍貴感情的句點

goodbye for us

有精神疾病真的非常辛苦

你不知道哪一天會突然又出現

不知道哪一句話 哪一首歌 哪一個風景

就觸動最深處的情感

接著爆發  或者又只是平靜的在內心劃著刀

我相信小賈對她而言 儘管結婚

也會是人生中  最最最特別的存在

不會去抹滅這一切  因為也不會抹滅自己的人生

很喜歡Selena 是因為 她一直都在努力地往前走

不管發生甚麼事情

也努力的做自己  找自己

真的算是我的model( 能被我稱為model的真的不多)

MV中 就像與鏡中的自己對話

每一句都是心坎裡最深的那些話

為了更愛自己而必須失去你

I needed to lose you to love me

必須恨你才能愛自己

I needed to hate you to love me

我聽到真的是心碎崩潰

哭的一蹋糊塗

所有曾經為愛失去自己的人

都應該聽這首歌

愛很偉大

但最重要的是愛自己

至今我仍不一定確認已找尋到愛自己的真諦

但再痛苦 我們都要再尋找的路上

起碼在這段感情中

必須離開你才能更愛自己

在 youtube 留言中selena也寫到

" This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself. "

聽了這首歌我真的覺得一點一點的   獲得一絲勇氣  

一點一點的好起來

一點一點的更愛自己

歌詞

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You promised the world and I fell for it

I put you first and you adored it

Set fires to my forest

And you let it burn

Sang off-key in my chorus

'Cause it wasn't yours

I saw the signs and I ignored it

Rose-colored glasses all distorted

Set fire to my purpose

And I let it burn

You got off on the hurtin'

When it wasn't yours, yeah

We'd always go into it blindly

I needed to lose you to find me

This dancing was killing me softly

I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me

I gave my all and they all know it

Then you tore me down and now it's showing

In two months, you replaced us

Like it was easy

Made me think I deserved it

In the thick of healing, yeah

We'd always go into it blindly

I needed to lose you to find me

This dancing was killing me softly

I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me

You promised the world and I fell for it

I put you first and you adored it

Set fires to my forest

And you let it burn

Sang off-key in my chorus

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

I needed to lose you to love me

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

And now the chapter is closed and done

To love, love, yeah

To love, love, yeah

To love, yeah

And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us